1. Primary members must be 30 or older — this is an adult community.
2. Family or friends (e.g. spouse, kids) may join sometimes if a current member asks staff first and vouches for them.
3. Apply at gumdum.com/apply before expecting a Realm invite; don’t share invite links publicly.
4. Be decent. Real life comes first; we’re here to relax and play survival, not collect drama.
5. No hacked clients, x-ray, duping, or exploits. Cheating = removed from the Realm; repeats = permanent.
6. One main identity. Alts only if staff knows (no ban evasion).
7. Staff calls are final. If you get a warning, take the L and adjust.

1. No harassment, slurs, hate speech, or punching down.
2. No alcohol, drugs, 420, or substance jokes/imagery — in-game or on Discord.
3. Keep NSFW out (links, skins, builds, voice).
4. Mild swearing is fine; don’t make it your whole personality.
5. No spam, caps raids, or stirring drama; use the right channel.
6. Discord (discord.gumdum.com) follows the same vibe as the Realm.

1. Don’t grief. No stealing from chests you weren’t invited to, no burning bases, no “pranks” that ruin someone’s week.
2. PvP only if everyone involved agrees first (ask before you swing).
3. Don’t trap or kill players who aren’t in on the fight.
4. Community farms and shared storage: take only what you need; replace what you use when it’s shared.
5. Build near others? Ask first. Don’t block spawns, portals, or someone’s front door.

1. No lag machines or intentional lag (mass entities, clock spam, etc.).
2. Realms backups matter — don’t wreck the world for a one-time laugh.
3. Broke something by accident? Fix it or tell staff.
4. Respect group sleep/vote if we use it; don’t hold the Realm hostage.
5. Bedrock Realms has no server IP — invites only (see Play Now).

1. Issues? Ping staff in-game, on Discord, or the forum.
2. Reports: who, what, when — screenshots help.
3. Punishments scale: reminder → timeout/kick → Realm removal → ban.
4. Appeals: polite message on Discord or the forum — not instant, not guaranteed.
5. Want to join? Apply here.